Yesterday we took our daughter fishing for the first time. It was a little bit of a mess but was still very much a success. A lot of the frustration came from the inaccuracy of the Colorado Parks & Wildlife fishing app – neither of the first two spots I chose worked out. The first was impossible to find and the second spot didn’t have any fish in the lake. However, thanks to the kindness of a volunteer in Rocky Mountain National Park, we found someplace to go later in the afternoon.
Before we go any further, I should say again, I did not grow up fishing or hunting. I’ve spent a lot of time educating myself on hunting, but I haven’t fished since I was twelve, and can probably count on my fingers how many times I’ve fished in my whole life. I barely know what I am doing. However, I’ve done a little research on trout and I bought some gear designed for fishing for trout with bait (I do aspire to learn to fly fish) and I got my little one set up on her Paw Patrol rod and reel I got her for Christmas last year.
Initially I cast for her and taught her to be patient, watch the bobber and keep the line tight. She, much like me at her age (and for most of my life), wasn’t very patient and kept reeling it in. I spent some time teaching her to cast, and as expected, she struggled at first. After a little frustration, a few tears and a pep talk, she finally settled in to learn how to do it and within a few minutes, she was throwing the line pretty well, if not consistently. One of the things I told her was frustration is a part of fishing and hunting and they both required patience and perseverance to overcome it.
So, at this point, she pretty much knows everything I know about fishing.
The burden is now on me and my wife to learn more about fishing and to take her as often as possible. I know it’s not rocket science, but it’s also not easy. Neither of us had a fishing or hunting mentor to teach us how to do these things and now we have to mentor our daughter. I have a lot of faith in my ability as a small game hunter, I’m by no means an expert, but I’ve had a fair amount of experience in this area in my adult years. I also have faith in my ability to hunt big game in spite of my lack of experience because of my intellectual pursuit of hunting and my time with my rifle. Again, I’m no expert, but I believe in my ability to figure it out and bring home some meat. These things I’ll be able to teach her as she gets older and by the time she’s ready for hunter’s education, I’ll have about four years or so behind me chasing elk, pronghorn and bear and I should be able to stay one step ahead of her for a while, but fishing? She may pass me by before her sixth birthday.
I’m doing what I can not only for myself and my own love of hunting and fishing, but for the next generation. But for every kid who doesn’t learn to hunt and who has the desire to hunt, like I did, it’s an uphill battle as an adult. We have to start ‘em young. We don’t have any other choice.